The cast lot puts an end to quarrels, And decides between the mighty ones.
Proverbs 18:18
The casting of lots in the Old Testament was to decide a matter when human wisdom had reached its limit. The last time casting of lots happened in the Bible was when the 12th disciple was chosen in the book of Acts. After that, Pentecost happened, and it became common practice to be able to hear and discern the will of God within the inner man. You are meant to hear God guide and direct you on a regular basis.
When a disagreement arises between two people, it can be difficult to yield when you feel you are on the “right side of right.” The flipping of a coin, although not conventional, could put both in a position to accept an outcome and “go with it” even if they don’t agree. In a business situation, we go along with decisions we may not agree with but find it harder to do that personally at times. What is the solution? Consider the following criteria before deciding to fight for your position.
PUT YOUR POSITION TO THE TEST
- If you get your way, who is helped and who is hurt?
- Would God be pleased with your victory or your yielding?
- What is the worst that could happen if you yield your position, and what is the best that could happen?
Decision-making isn’t easy for anyone when they feel they must compromise their point of view, yet sometimes you can lose with the person even if you win with your position. Always remember to count the cost and weigh your position as God would. Sometimes it’s better to take the high road instead of taking a stand.
REFLECT TO CONNECT
- Have you ever asked yourself “What would Jesus do” when in conflict?
- Whom do you admire as a peacemaker?
- What are the merits of compromising and living to fight another day?
Sometimes the quickest way to the “high road” is on your knees in prayer.
